Jakolien Sok lying on a white sofa, working on her laptop

About Jacky + Co.

HI, I'M JACKY.

Entrepreneur since 2007 · Notion Official Ambassador · Notion Certified Pro · Flodesk Partner

Welcome lovely!

I'm a pattern spotter who helps female founders build the business systems, funnels and soft marketing that actually work, even on the days your brain doesn't come to work 🫣

Hi, I'm Jacky, your go-to Soft Systems Strategist.

The pattern spotter

Always early, and always on purpose.

People keep telling me I'm ahead of the curve, and after more than 19 years I've stopped arguing 🤣 (maybe it's the pattern spotting in my AuDHD brain, who knows...)

Jakolien Sok in a light blue robe, chin resting in her hand

01

In 2009 I built one of the first social media marketing trainings for female entrepreneurs in the Netherlands, a live, in-person group training that sold out for three years (and I ran it almost every week).

02

In 2012 my ebook Boost Your Biz already had a whole step called Become a Master of the Soft Sale, long before soft selling had a name. It was read in around 54 countries (and it's coming back next year 🤗)

03

While everyone around me was chasing followers, I was writing: an entrepreneur column in one of the biggest Dutch national newspapers for over a year, guest posts for one of the biggest blogs in marketing, and a seat on guest panels.

04

I test the tools before everyone else gets them, as a Notion alpha and beta tester, a paid Canva beta tester for three years and a Teachery 4.0 beta tester (fancy, I know 💃)

05

And after more than 19 years without a single employee (by choice!), I've already got a small but mighty team of AI employees, mainly built by myself.

I build everything for myself first and prove it works before I ever teach it to you. That's the beta tester in me, and it's why I've been steering clear of the bro marketing and #hustlefrazzle stuff since 2007 😉

my JOURNEY

Nineteen years in business taught me exactly where a business starts asking too much of the person running it.

Jacky - Brand Shoot - blue stripe top

07-07-07

Built a business from scratch

Jacky + Co. began on 07-07-07. I learned business by building it, solving real problems and creating what the work and my clients needed next.

The 'head' years

Ran it all inside my head

For years, every plan, project and next step lived in my head. I tried planners, Trello, Asana, ClickUp and Google Drive with a prayer.

One to-do list

Found a calmer way to work

Notion started as one simple list, grew into my backend and then became the business brain my AuDHD mind had needed for years.

Jakolien Sok - iPhone

Today

Turned it into Soft Systems

That foundation grew into Soft Systems, and the Studio helping female entrepreneurs give valuable ideas somewhere to live, finish, sell and scale.

The whole point

Freedom was never the bonus, it was the whole point.

I don't need to brag about it, but this is what my business is actually for:

No calls before 1 pm, ever.

Mondays are for admin and Fridays for reflection, so neither of them has a single call in it.

I've journaled every single day since 2 May 2025 (not one day missed...)

I plan my year in Capacity Seasons, so I choose when to rest and when to go all in (this winter, it's all in 🔥)

Jakolien Sok seen from behind, curly bun and a light blue top

More choice, and a business that carries me wherever I want to go.

That's the point for me 🩵

The Soft Systems philosophy

My work gives motivation somewhere useful to land.

Soft Systems is the quiet backstage that holds up the public-facing business and keeps the work connected when your capacity changes. It gives your ideas somewhere to live when your capacity is not consistent, so your business can keep moving without asking you to perform like a different person every day. Capacity Seasons™ shape the pace. Purple Bridges™ keep one valuable thing visible long enough to finish and sell. That is the business I needed, and it is the work I now build for other women.

Soft heart. Ironclad systems.

Some fun facts

Get to know me a little better

01

When I'm not working...

I'm usually at home with my rescue cats, Luna and Bikkel, enjoying the quiet, following a new curiosity or nerding out over tools and systems.

02

I can't live without...

My cats, my faith, amazing food, good wine, enough space to think and a business that leaves room for an actual life outside of it.

03

I'm always up for a good...

Deep conversation, a beautiful business idea, Greek-island daydreaming and anything that begins with, "What if we made this much simpler?"

A laptop resting on a fluffy white throw with soft blue cushions

Let's write your next chapter

A business that matters is only half the dream.

The other half is being able to close your laptop in the middle of the afternoon, spend a year abroad if you feel like it, have real financial freedom and choice, and know that the business you built will carry you, wherever you want to go.

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Come along for the ride

Where to find me

Instagram

Come say hi

Soft systems, AI employees and the real behind-the-scenes of running a business with a neuro sparkly brain 😉

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The shop

Opening in November

My Notion templates and soft systems, all in one place. The waitlist gets 26% off when the doors open (because it's 2026 🥂)

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The podcast

Coming soon

My very own podcast is on its way, and I can't wait to tell you more about it very soon 🩵

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